Your work 

shouldn't be painful.

 

End the cycle of perfectionism and procrastination.

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Your work 

shouldn't be so painful.

End the cycle of perfection and procrastination for good.

Take the Free Course

Founded by two perfectionist procrastinators.

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Mary Whiteside, Esq., LCS

Attorney, certified life coach, and mother of two.

Dr. Lee M Pierce

Associate professor & published author.

Sick kids, surprise visitors, you're tired. Whatever it is, we got you.

After years of struggling with our own chronic cycles of procrastination and perfectionism, we were exhausted. Our projects weren't getting done. We were playing small in every area of our lives. So we set out to create a system that would finally get us out of overwhelm and into momentum. 

Now, we're bringing it to you. We know the Self Mentor System can change your life, because we've seen it change ours. Life on the other side isn't perfect, but we promise it will be so much better than you ever thought it could be.

 
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3 simple steps to finally get that project done.

Even on the days that nothing is going according to plan.

1. Stepping Stone

Create doable daily work plans designed for all those days that nothing goes as planned.

2. Thought Work

Amplify your inner mentor and turn down the volume on your critic and justifier voices. 

3. Recognition

Celebrate every time that you do something when you might otherwise have done nothing.

Ready for more support? Join the SMS Community Membership.

Accountability and feedback from people who get what you're going through.

SMS Community Membership

$59/month

 What you'll get:

  • Weekly Q & As and guided work sessions 

  • Video replays of all sessions in private member podcast

  • 40-page custom workbook

  • Daily challenges and exclusives in the Communities App and website

Automatically renews at $59 per month as long as you remain a member.

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SMS Community Membership PRO

$299/6 months

Save $100 over the regular monthly price and get one private mentoring session with Mary or Lee to help you.

In addition to everything included in the regular monthly membership:

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From Mary

For decades I have had to criticize and cajole myself into doing anything that felt tedious. The constant, exacting voice in my head made it impossible to try anything in case I failed. I created the Self Mentor System for all those perfectionists out there. The world needs you and you deserve better.

From Lee

I have always felt too tired, too overwhelmed, to try anything beyond the bare minimum. I missed countless opportunities and spent all my energy getting from one day to another. I created the Self Mentor System for all those procrastinators out there. I promise, your life can be so much better than you think.

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